The Ex- Factor

One of my good  friends wants to date a guy but his ex's are telling her all sorts of things about him.  I have some issues with that.  The obvious question is why are they trying to push her away from him?  So she doesn't have to go through the same thing?  Or is it because they simply don't want her to date him.  First off the thing that keeps coming up in my mind is, "why do they care about who she wants to date?"  Either they need to chill or worry about their own problems.  Another thing is why are they focusing on the bad aspects of him?  Focusing on the faults of a person makes things worse.   If they already broke up why do they care about who he dates?  Instead of telling everyone he likes to back off, shouldn't they be wishing the best to him?  If I dated someone and we broke up I would be wishing the best to that person instead of going off and telling everyone how horrible they are.  I find that extremely immature.  If you really cared you would let go and move on with life.  Never listen to those people who do that, it's whatever pleases you and if they don't like it well that's too bad for them!  That's all for today, have a PEACEFUL day!